Why Recovery Isn’t Weakness
In a system that glorifies exhaustion, rest can feel like failure.
Somewhere along the way, many of us learned that rest is indulgent. That recovery is optional. That real commitment means always being available, always pushing through, always “on.”
But the truth is this:
Recovery is not weakness.
It’s the foundation of sustainable service.
Without it, care becomes corrosive.
Work becomes self-erasure.
And leadership becomes brittle.
Burnout doesn’t begin at collapse.
It begins when we start feeling guilty for needing to recover.
In humanitarian work, rest is often treated as a reward for surviving a crisis — not as a built-in part of the work. We wait until exhaustion becomes illness. Until someone breaks down. Until the body or mind forces a stop.
But recovery isn’t what you do after you’ve overextended.
It’s the practice that keeps you aligned, present, and able to continue with clarity.
Why do we resist recovery?
Because the systems we’re in reward performance, not presence.
Because some leaders model collapse as commitment.
Because somewhere, we internalized the message that rest makes us replaceable.
But rest doesn’t make you soft — it makes you strategic.
It sharpens your discernment. It returns you to yourself.
And when done well, it brings your values back into focus.
Recovery is part of the work.
It’s not a pause from responsibility — it’s a return to what actually matters.
Recovery helps you:
Reconnect with your “why”
Heal the nervous system from chronic activation
See the bigger picture (instead of just reacting)
Lead with presence rather than panic
Sustainable leadership and collective care require rhythms of work and recovery — not just sprints and survival.
Let this be your permission:
You’re not weak for needing rest.
You’re wise for making space to return to yourself.
In fact, the most courageous leaders I know are the ones who model recovery — not as a secret, but as a signal. They show their teams that rest is not failure. It’s part of the design.
Holding space with care and solidarity — here’s to staying whole, together,
Kate
Thanks for reading The Olive Pages: Fieldnotes on care, clarity, and staying whole
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