We Don’t Talk About Moral Injury — But We Should
Because what you’re feeling might not be burnout. It might be betrayal.
There’s a quiet ache many humanitarians carry.
It doesn’t always show up as stress or exhaustion. Sometimes it looks like numbness. Cynicism. Disconnection.
Not because you’ve stopped caring — but because caring has started to hurt.
We’ve been told it’s burnout.
But for many, what we’re experiencing is moral injury — and calling it by its name matters.
What is moral injury?
Moral injury happens when we’re forced to act in ways that betray our values — or when we witness harm and are powerless to prevent it.
It’s not just exhaustion from overwork.
It’s a slow erosion of integrity.
It’s the dissonance between what we believe in and what we’re being asked to accept.
In the humanitarian world, it can look like:
Being pressured to stay silent when harm happens
Watching funding go to performative projects while real needs go unmet
Feeling complicit in systems you once believed would create change
Saying yes to things that leave you quietly ashamed
And unlike burnout, moral injury doesn’t get better with time off.
Because this isn’t about rest. It’s about repair.
The human cost of staying silent.
Many people don’t know they’re experiencing moral injury — they just know something feels “off.”
So they question themselves.
They try to be more “resilient.”
They wonder why they can’t bounce back the way they used to.
But the truth is: you can’t resilience your way out of betrayal.
You can’t mindfulness your way through a values violation.
And pretending that moral injury is a performance or mindset issue only deepens the harm.
This is what it sounds like.
“I don’t know who I’m becoming in this role.”
“I can’t say what I really think in meetings anymore.”
“We’re doing the opposite of what we say we stand for.”
“I just need to get through the restructure and then maybe I can leave.”
“It doesn’t feel safe to speak up — and I hate that I’ve gotten used to it.”
If these feel familiar — you are not broken. You’re responding, wisely, to something that is.
Naming it is the beginning of healing.
Moral injury doesn’t mean you’re weak.
It means your moral compass is still working.
What you’re experiencing is grief. Disorientation. A response to internal contradiction.
And you’re allowed to stop pretending everything’s fine.
Healing begins with naming.
And from there, with care:
Space to speak honestly — without fear of consequences
Leaders who model accountability, not just control
Workplaces where integrity is more than a buzzword
Communities where your humanity is protected, not punished
The invitation: stop carrying this alone.
You were never meant to shoulder this quietly.
And you’re not the only one feeling it.
This isn’t just a personal reckoning. It’s a professional culture shift.
When we talk about moral injury, we’re not weakening the mission — we’re protecting it.
Because a sector that silences truth cannot claim to stand for justice.
And a leader who punishes honesty cannot cultivate trust.
So if your voice shakes, let it shake.
If your body says no, listen.
Moral clarity is not a liability.
It’s the beginning of change.
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